Allie is one of five CVN Serving with Sisters Ambassadors – volunteers sharing the joy, energy, and fulfillment of serving alongside Catholic Sisters in CVN member programs, through creative reflection, conversation, and experience. Enjoy this post, and stay tuned to hear more from Allie and her fellow Ambassadors over the course of their service year!
Our new "frenemies," the parrots, at the Mariposario in Santa Cruz, Bolivia. |
The sound
of a parrot mimicking its sounds at a sheep, who “bahs” back, is my alarm clock
every morning around 6:30 AM. I get out of bed, go to the bathroom, and check for
water. I turn the faucet handle - no water. This is the outcome at least three
times a week. I know this means I have to use the bucket of water, which my
community member, Andrea Gaitan,
and I fill on other days when we are privileged with water. We use this bucket
to brush our teeth, wash our hands, fill the septic tank so we are able to
flush the toilet, clean clothes, our faces, floors, and walls, and to boil for
drinking water. The water is not safe to drink from the sink, which leads us to
spend our Sunday nights recycling the water bottles we acquired from the
week before to fill them with boiled, healthy drinking water for our upcoming
week. Starting our mornings in this discouraging way can lead me to think: why
did I choose this life? Why did I choose to live in a place where the water is
not safe to drink, and the air is so thin from the 9,000 ft. altitude that I
lose my breath going up stairs?
As these
thoughts and questions cross my mind after leaving our apartment, we enter a bus,
paying the driver 1.50BS (Bolivianos) for the ride. The journey to work takes
about 30 minutes, as we pick up many children catching a ride to school. As the
ride continues, it gets very crowded with people hanging out the door and
windows. You quickly learn there are no bus stops or stop lights. This leads
to the honking language heard everywhere; HONK from the taxi to let you know
they are available, HONK HONK from the car going through the intersection to
let other cars know they are there, HONK from a car while you are walking on
the side walk so you know not to cross the street at that time. "Vamos a bajar," we tell the
driver as we come to our stop, to let him know we will be getting off. As we
exit the bus, I’m still wondering why I left the world of luxury the United
States easily provides. Then we enter our workspace, and I am answered with why
I am here.
One of the Sayariy Warmi participants making a scarf. |
We work
at Sayariy Warmi, a name written in Quechua - an indigenous language that a
majority of people here speak. Quechua is extremely different from Spanish,
which can lead to difficulties in communication at times. Translated to
Spanish, Sayariy Warmi means Lavantate Mujer, and roughly translated to English
it means Rising Woman or Woman Rise Up. Sayariy Warmi is a place where women
suffering from domestic violence can come claim their independence. The program
provides classes ranging from sewing to computer skills, and I am currently
helping the program create a group of women leaders to learn about women's
rights in politics. Andrea is working with the psychologist and helping with
the social work of this program. I have spent most of my first month learning
the language, politics, economics of my new country, and other various helpful
skills in order to do my job. Because I am still learning Spanish, when I am
presented with a woman who speaks Quechua the communication level becomes even
more difficult.
Andrea (left) and I exploring Santa Cruz, Bolivia. |
While
learning about my job, the work environment in Bolivia has proved to be quite
the opposite from the work place in the United States. Here, there is not
always internet, sometimes there is no water, with transportation difficulties
people tend to be late (where as the United Sates culture is to try to arrive
15 minutes early), the lunch break is two hours long and the most important
meal of the day, and every day around 3:00 PM it is cultural protocol to have
tea and bread with jelly. Andrea and I are lucky to eat lunch with Sisters of
the Good Shepherd every day. Working in different conditions than I am used to
has taught me to be flexible, to understand that this is the way Bolivians know
how to do their jobs, and that there is always a way to figure out how to do
something in Bolivia.
While I
am learning how to deal with new ways to work, there are also the communities
we serve. Along with the women's center, our other Sayariy Warmi communities
are in various places. One is in a place called Barrio Bolivia, in the
mountainside. These families live in tiny square houses with no water,
electricity, or bathrooms. In order to own a house, the family has to have at
least five children; I know of family who has a Mom, Dad, Grandma, and nine
children sharing a home without basic necessities and different farm animals
running around. In Barrio Bolivia we have a Comedor, dining room, for 47
children from the Chalice program to have a safe place to eat and complete
their homework. Chalice is a program where families from Canada sponsor
children to help provide for their needs. This dining room provides lunch
and dinner, and other volunteers offer homework help and games.
A
different children's center, which also happens to be where Andrea and I live,
provides an educational care center for other children of the Chalice program.
Right now there are around 50 children ranging from ages two to eight who come
every week-day from 8:30 AM to 4:00 PM - a day filled with different lessons,
games, snack, lunch, and of course, tea time. These children are not always
clean, might come from tight living conditions (most houses in this area have
seven families in one building, with one bathroom to share), and might have to
wear the same clothes day after day. It’s clear that they are poor. But, I
learn so much from them as they generously share with me their tiny, fun
personalities and laughter. Serving these communities helps me realize at the
end of the day how lucky and blessed we are for the days we do have water and
other little successes here, and for the life I have been privileged to live in
the United States.
When I get home from my workday, I reflect on the day we just had. There are days where I feel a lot of anger, sadness and shock; other days are filled with success and joy. Either way my workday ends, it leaves me thankful for the way my life has been and wish we could do more for these families. It is hard for me to understand how at home in the United States, I can order a new pair of socks on Amazon Prime expecting them in the same day or the next without ever leaving the comfort of my bed, while these families walk miles to go to stores for basic necessities such as socks, water, food, school or any other thing you might think of. These people are working so hard just to live the simplest life. As my nights close with these new mind-boggling thoughts, they tend to end early as I go to sleep around 9:00 or 10:00 PM to be able to wake up to the parrot the next day, awaiting my next Bolivian adventure.
When I get home from my workday, I reflect on the day we just had. There are days where I feel a lot of anger, sadness and shock; other days are filled with success and joy. Either way my workday ends, it leaves me thankful for the way my life has been and wish we could do more for these families. It is hard for me to understand how at home in the United States, I can order a new pair of socks on Amazon Prime expecting them in the same day or the next without ever leaving the comfort of my bed, while these families walk miles to go to stores for basic necessities such as socks, water, food, school or any other thing you might think of. These people are working so hard just to live the simplest life. As my nights close with these new mind-boggling thoughts, they tend to end early as I go to sleep around 9:00 or 10:00 PM to be able to wake up to the parrot the next day, awaiting my next Bolivian adventure.
Allie, a current Good Shepherd Volunteer, will be blogging about her service experience as part of our ongoing Serving with Sisters Ambassadors series. This series is sponsored by CVN's From Service to Sisterhood Initiative, a project made possible thanks to the support of the Conrad N. Hilton Foundation.
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