The dictionary
defines Charisma as “a compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire
devotion to others.” I believe this definition is perfect to describe why I
chose to serve. I was attracted to service because it was a world of unknowns
and adventure, while devoting time and work to others. As I was applying to
service organizations, the values of Good Shepherd Volunteers (GSV) stuck out to me.
GSV has four core values of Social Justice, Community, Spirituality, and
Simplicity while encouraging their volunteers to represent the Sisters’ core
values of Individual Dignity, Zeal, Reconciliation, and Mercy. All these values
of the GSV program can be broken down into the following words that, I believe,
best describe Good Shepherd’s charism.
C - Calling The dictionary
defines the word vocation as “a strong feeling of suitability for a particular
career.” I believe when the Good Shepherd Sisters received their calling
towards this vocation, they knew they were in the right place. Sisters feel
such a strong desire to help others, and they make a significant sacrifice to
serve others. I have witnessed this work first hand, and it is incredible.
Watching the sisters interact with every person that crosses their path with
love and compassion influences me every day to be more open minded without pre-judgments. With this mindset I feel I have been able to reach more people,
learn more, and take more risks without fear.
H- Humbling Working with
GSV has proven to be one of the most humbling experiences. Every day I learn something new, proving how little I knew about life before this experience.
Living in Sucre, Bolivia has made me more humble than ever before. I have met
people who need to walk 3 hours from their house to get to work, I have seen
children wear the same clothes constantly- no matter how dirty they might be,
and I have witnessed a corrupt political system full of civilian protests for
laws and actions that I have never thought could exist. With these few examples
in mind, I have learned how every country, group, or individual is different.
If I believe something could be done in a certain way, that does not mean a
Bolivian is accustomed to doing things my way. In these moments I truly have to
step back, listen, understand and trust the process. I am constantly growing in
appreciation and respect for the communities I work with. Learning every day
about our communities is difficult and eye opening, but only creates more of a
curiosity and attentiveness for what is out there and how we can help.
Marching with our women to lift our voices against violence. |
A-Amor Amor; love.
Working in communities experiencing hardship, discouragement, violence,
neglect, poverty, misunderstanding, and any other negative words you can think
of... love is always the most important tool to have. I believe the staff,
volunteers and Sisters who work with GSV have a strong belief that everyone is
human, everyone has a story, and everyone deserves a chance. Knowing I am
working with communities who the political, social, and economic systems
ignore, oppress or discourage, I realize sometimes that second chances can only
be shown through love and compassion. I am not in this work for the money, or
for being the boss and making decisions. I am attracted to this work to be
devoted to others and to just be there. The GSV slogan is "Just Love"
which means love in justice, and to simply, just love. Playing games with
children who come from homes that suffer from domestic violence and seeing
their worry-free smiles is why I chose to volunteer. Being able to show these
children, and women that someone believes in them and loves them, especially as
a complete stranger, gives them hope and confidence they might not have had
before. This part of GSV is one of the strongest pieces of the charism to
include and inspire others.
Teaching art therapy at a Good Shepherd Shelter in Los Angeles, CA in my first year as a GSV (children's faces blurred for confidentiality). |
R-
Rapport Creating
rapport is a phrase used in all jobs throughout GSV. From the beginning, I
learned I would have to gain the trust of the people I might encounter
throughout my year. The best way I have been taught to do that is through love
and open-mindedness. Being able to observe the Sisters create rapport so easily
has inspired me and taught me different ways to interact with others. Every
time I encounter a new person, I know they have a story to tell, and every
story is different. Learning how to create rapport has taught me not to assume
that everyone has had the same experiences or beliefs. Keeping this in mind, I
have been able to have open conversations with many different people by sharing
opinions. Being able to accept and value every person’s difference has taught
me many new things that I have to credit to my new friends along this
journey.
The Good Shepherd Sisters modeled the importance of having fun with the kids on Halloween in my first year as a GSV in Los Angeles. |
I-Intentional Intentionality
is a huge part of GSV. Coming into a volunteer year would not have worked if I
did not feel intentional about it. I have to want to be here; I have to want to
be in it for the hard times and the good times. To live intentionally is to
live with purpose, and to live with the idea that every choice you make has an
impact on yourself and others around you. As a second year volunteer, I also have a
better understanding of the meaning of intentional living. It means believing
in your own happiness through a conscious attempt to live according to your
beliefs and values. Living on a stipend, living in community, exploring
different religious values, adventuring in new countries and cities, meeting
new people, teaching my own students; every single one of these GSV experiences
(and more) has taught me more about myself, my values and beliefs, and how to
live intentionally.
Andrea and I having fun being GSVs at Orientation last summer, where I had the chance to reflect on my first year as a GSV and prepare for my second. |
S-
Spirituality I believe
Spirituality is one of the best ways GSV is different from other volunteer
programs. While GSV is a Catholic based organization, it accepts all religious
and spiritual backgrounds. This shows GSV does not discriminate against other
religions and is willing to see their volunteers discover their own spiritual
journey, allowing me the freedom to express and explore my spirituality the way
I want. Admittedly, working with Catholic Sisters at the beginning made me
nervous. When I entered a religious world I was unfamiliar with, I pictured
having to pretend to be something I wasn’t. I did not attend mass constantly,
and I did not understand most of the Catholic world. When I first met the
Sisters, I thought I would have to act religious. However, right away I learned
that the Sisters love hearing and learning about religious, spiritual values
and the backgrounds each new volunteer brings. This has motivated me and showed
me how religion can be expressed through personality and curiosity, and that
there is more than one-way to express the way you feel spiritually.
Hermana Consuelo and I after renewing her vows! 93 and she still shows an amazing amount of love towards everyone! |
Allie, a current Good Shepherd Volunteer, will be blogging about her service experience as part of our ongoing Serving with Sisters Ambassadors series. This series is sponsored by CVN's From Service to Sisterhood Initiative, a project made possible thanks to the support of the Conrad N. Hilton Foundation.
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